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A friend of mine recently lost her loved one... to another person. Relationships can be so fragile, even when they seem strong enough to weather any storm. What does one do? Words cannot express the grief one feels about lost love. Then again, wise words or great quotes of famous people can heal wounds and help us reflect on the tragedy.

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April 29, 2009 at 10:26 am
(1) rebecca says:

I dont know what to do with my boyfriend… he is ignoring me and always flirting with other girls, all my frineds say I must dump him because he is not a good boyfriend…

May 6, 2009 at 11:34 am
(2) alvalena says:

MA BOY 4RND SAYS DNT B LEAVE OTHA PEOPLE CUZ IT DNT B TRUE SO I TRY NOT 2 LISTEN EVERY TYME WE BREAK UP WE GET BACK 2 GATHA …..

May 23, 2009 at 7:01 pm
(3) Katie says:

well theres a gu i like alot my friends an i went 2 a party and he was there 2 and she kissed him infront of me and they were holding hands and stuff like that but my friend already has a boyfriend andim so angry and upset…..

August 28, 2009 at 1:31 pm
(4) jessica says:

i useally look up sad broken hearted videos

September 25, 2009 at 4:41 pm
(5) fang says:

my boy friend just broke up with me and its because of his parents and hes moving away and i can never see him again so i dont know what to do! (he has no email or way of contacting me.) and if i did call him my phone bill would be astranomical because hes moving to the netherlands. so what do i do?

October 4, 2009 at 5:13 pm
(6) hussain says:

Well, the broken heart is like a drop of water out of sea,

i had break ups thrice, every time i decided not to fallin that deadly emotional feelings again but you never know when you get used to be with someone,

my point is that i have seen some peoples so strong with heart that they are not effected with breakups and problems they always take these things lightly and donot get involved in what the one can feel.

i really want to be like them always happy andwants to make happy other one as well.

why the peoples have different effects of break ups???
why we feel too much????
and why it happens?…

November 10, 2009 at 10:26 pm
(7) danna paola rodriguez says:

i hav broken up lik 5x nd those 5x i jst feel lik cutin all of my exs balls of nd play pin pong with them!!!!… luv u!!..

November 11, 2009 at 4:00 am
(8) Allie says:

I’ve never had a true boyfriend and I’m in love with a boy who I’ve known scince 5th grade and he’s been my bestvfrind scince 6th grade I’ve liked him for more than a year be has never liked me even for one second I cry myself to sleep and hide my saddness from him and my friends I’ve even turned to drugs but I don’t do them anymore he’s moving and has had many girl friends changed his hair and now every girl loves him I love him fir him before his hair and everything I’m alone sad and hiding it from everyone I love.

November 14, 2009 at 2:51 am
(9) someone says:

i just take my life as it comes… what ever happen in life is just for good v should learn where v went wrong in it..!!
just relax and put all ur worries in the recycle bin of ur brain and erase it for ever..
b happy with all the gud movement u have in ur have…
if u think ur happy then ur happy forever but if u think evry thing is lost then u ll fell lonely so never get depessed in life just b happy and make other happy…

December 1, 2009 at 4:13 pm
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December 2, 2009 at 10:51 am
(11) ashley says:

Well me and my boyfriend were togther for going on three years, i know to some people thats not long. We started dating when i was 14 bout to turn 15, I felt mature and grown up i knew i could handle the responsibility, now i am 17 i realize we have both changed so much we have been through hell and high water, i cheated on him just as i did that he went out with one of my friends, the tears during that period of time was immense. i just cant cry any more i am hurting so bad though nobody sees it my family thinks all is well. I know i am just a teenager but the pain is so very real. I have to deal with the pain of us growing apart, having a high school sweet heart isn’t all its cracked up to be there are many trails u have to go through. I have learned so much about having a relationship and my favorite thing about it is having someone love you and care about you there is an intense sense of security. i really miss him and today i hurt for this love that lasted so long

May 4, 2010 at 5:03 am
(12) Elizabeth says:

i have a boyfriend and 2 of ma best friends told him that i was cheating on him but i wasnt i dont know with who and he doesnt believe me….what should i do i dont sleep eat….and alot of people say that he looks happier now that dis happend ugh i wanna kill ma self bcause that wasnt true

August 12, 2010 at 3:15 pm
(13) Julian says:

i don’t know what to do. i’ve been in love with the same girl for over a couple years and this is only highschool but she is into girl’s.

January 2, 2011 at 11:43 pm
(14) Ross says:

My girlfriend who told me she loved me and wanted to move in with me turned out to be unfaithful. And still uses me. I am only 17 but the pain is the same i gave up moving to Japan for her and now feel an emptiness i never thought possible what do i do.

January 10, 2011 at 11:36 am
(15) Jade says:

Theres a boy i never knew until a friend of mine had a sleepover 4 his bday i looked him str8 in the eye he looked @ me i had a gr8 feelin about this. But 2 wks later my friend had a message on fb sayin another girl was goin out wiv him and how d u think i reacted to that ………………… well let me tell u cried all day coudnt slp 4 2 nites and this nitemare is still goin on wat 2 do i saw him and cried wat a saddo but he said dont worry i dont think i can cope in this relationship 4 much longer xxxxx OMG i was still a bit upset thinkin was dis just 2 make me fl better coz if it is it ent workin but if it aint then my hearts meanded wat would u suggest ………… is my heart really meanded ar was that just to make me feel better? help me xxxxxxxxxxxxx luv ya jak xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

March 24, 2011 at 11:33 am
(16) someone says:

my girlfriend loves me! (: and we never have problems!

April 13, 2011 at 2:53 pm
(17) Ken says:

I went out with a girl for 2 weeks, we went to the mall and everything, we kissed and hugged and all the things you and your gf would do. Then right at the beginning of the third week she said she just wanted to be friends not together anymore. That shattered my heart into pieces, i felt like she took 2/3′s of my life away. Since that day I haven’t bin doing any work, I don’t feel like going to school. And she won’t even explain why she did not like me anymore. All I wan’t to do is jump off a bridge or any sort of suicide. I ride my bike very night around 12:00 just to try to not think about it, but it’s like wedged into my head and heart. I don’t know how to relieve the pain and sadness. Ive gotten refferals and suspensions for talking back/ threating teachers so they can leave me alone. I beat up a kid for making a joke about it. I feel like a ghost. As I was typing this I was crying.

May 6, 2011 at 12:12 am
(18) Broken heart...person says:

I was still in love with my ex, my best friends told him that, he asked and i said no, because i was scared. After a couple hours he texted me. I thought it was nice if we were atleast friends. Then he asked me if i liked anyone, i told him idk because i didnt want to give him hints or being seen as shuting him out. After a while he said “Do you like me”. I was a fraid to tell him so i didnt respond. Then he said “Just kidding, i know you dont. Anyways we are over and i am so over you”.
Im like, really depressed right now, but in a way, i knew that it wouldnt work, but i stopped listening to my brain and let my heart take control. Bad idea. I’ll try to listen to my concense next time.

June 23, 2011 at 5:18 pm
(19) Heartbroken says:

My boyfriend just broke up with me and im really upset. After he broke up with me he broke his hand because of me. i failed an exam cause i started crying when he was in surgery :( what can i do to get my mind off of things.
Anyone got ANY suggestions??

June 23, 2011 at 11:02 pm
(20) broken hearted kid says:

I just told this girl I am in love with I like her and I no she doesn’t like me and she told me she was in love with another guy that’s 4 years older than her

June 28, 2011 at 3:30 pm
(21) Rami says:

i was happy, i was single, i had a dream, i felt no pain, untile an angel from heaven came into my life, stole my heart took my breath away! i was in heaven, i was in a relationship, my dream came true, all i could feel was the love i had for this angel, days, nights, weeks, months, go by, every thing is smooth, i dont belive in this word, but she made me belive it was * Perfect* never have i felt for somone so quick so hard so strong, i felt that nothing could go wrong, I WAS IN LOVE, she told me every thing that i wanned to hear, she told me how much she loved me, and wanned to spend the rest of her life with me, i felt every thing she felt, i wanned every thing she wanned, when she new she had me, when she new i was her baby and she was my lady, when she new i was inlove with her, she *CHANGED* She was never intrested she didnt want to spend time with me, it seem’ed like she hated me, then i fell from haven, i was sad, i was lonely, my dream end’ed, i didnt feel any thing but Pain, i try to cry the pain away but not one tear came down, soo i scream as loud as i can i dont no how to make this pain stop. my heart is broken, im lonely lost scared that i will never love again, im so lost in this big world…

July 30, 2011 at 4:50 pm
(22) the fallen says:

this girl i love…. i cant really blame her for neva loving me…. the day i confessed she kinda dumped me… well back then it was ok …cause i just had a crush on her…. a week later she asked me whether i still have a crush on her… i was like ” yes i do” …she told me tht she kinda liked me to feel tht way for her and tht she liked it…. well u could say it was the first time in my life i felt so much alive…. as days went on my love grew for her… but for some reason afta getting into in … the more i loved her… the harder i found it to talk to her… i donno why but even though there were times she asked me sit next to her in class…. i always declined the offer …offer tht i always waited for ( i am not much of a “in control” character when i am in love , u could say… i guess thts my little girly side )…. thts how i screwed it all…. i dont blame her for breaking up with me…. i was trying my best to get in phase with her personality tht i stupidly overlooked the basic facts like her birthday date… which i thought was 19th Aug when it was 9th Aug…… well now the break up makes me realize the douche i was …. all i feel right now is pain…i hate myself for not being a good boyfrd ….. shes right i have no rights to say i loved her…. acting tht way … i only wish i came to this sooner…. right now even though there is no way i can get her back… i want her back ….. i really cant see how can i fall in love with someone else…. whts worse…. shes the first one i’ve eva felt this way for…. i love her so much…more than i can love myself… all i can think of right now …is become a better person than i was be4…. just so…if i eva get the chance…. i really want her back…. ( i dont really have anyone to talk to abt this …so i am pouring my heart out here hoping it will make me feel a little better)

September 1, 2011 at 6:47 pm
(23) Adrianna says:

The boy i liked said he liked me then turned around and dated my cousin..i act like im happy for them..im not every time i see him he smiles at me and my heart melts but then my cousin walks in and me and him face away i wish he knew how much i loved him..i have dreams about him dating me..i have the feeling that he doesnt even know me any more..he forgot my birthday,he doesnt know my last name..i wish he was mine..if my cousin is happy i guess i should be too..right? help me get through this please! i love him so much!

October 13, 2011 at 5:40 pm
(24) Esmeralda says:

iAm HeartBroken<|3 And iM
Only 12-__- iLykee This Guy
And My Friend Knowss
And Me And Him Havee Lykee
2O48 Messaqes On Facebook
And iGet On My Friends Facebook
A Few Minutes Ago Too Check Her
Sims Social And iLook At Her Messages
Too See Them Cuusz Mines And Her Conversations( x
Then iSee She Has Lykee 1OOO Messages Wifd Him
iWuusz Sweatinq When iWuusz Readinq Them-___-
And That Hurts ! iDont Know Why-___-
iNeed Support Ckan Sumonee Tell Me Wuut To Do

November 15, 2011 at 1:17 pm
(25) You'll never know.. says:

Okay listen for all the girls and guys that got hurt I know how u feel. Sometimes it’s better to not show them your in pain, your going to have to talk it out to someone explode all u feel inside to like ur best friend or something. I know it’s gonna hurt for a while but well all get over it! my baby just broke up with me over the weekend I was crushed but I didn’t cry. I don’t know why though he meant everything to me. But the thing is does your baby or boo love you for you. Or for ur looks! I know it’s cute to have a hot partner but would u date a cutie who is also an ass but an average guy who really loves you. And one last thing for the girls if a guy tells u I won’t hurt u I promise it’s a lie they never mean what they say

January 16, 2012 at 11:57 pm
(26) Aaron Farrell says:

I know all of you feel I’m in love with someone who cheated on me but my feelings for her are so strong I decided to be her friend just to keep her in my life she now has a boyfriend and it hurts me even more knowing she can move on that easy. Three yrs of my life wasted

February 29, 2012 at 1:12 am
(27) kate says:

my heart is broken in pieces. i don’t know what to do. he broken it in every pieces he could i don’t believe i have fallen so easily for while he was just playing i can’t live witjout him i will never give my heart to someone because of him

April 2, 2012 at 4:09 pm
(28) erin says:

I just got my heart broken by this guy he says he loves me he will take care of me and I’m not the jealous type but he is talking to this girl that is the biggest hoe in my school and she was best friends with my friend now but something happend between them and bow she is flirting with my bf I love him he says to trust him and I just do think I can someone please help me I don’t no what to do!!???:(

April 10, 2012 at 8:22 pm
(29) cat says:

I fell in love with my best friend and he did the same with me. But then he met some other girl and they became best friends…and now he likes her. :( Now they go out and he doesnt like me more than a friend at all anymore. its so depressing to have wasted 2 years of my life on him when we would never be.

April 21, 2012 at 8:22 pm
(30) willard says:

well there is this girl and we dated and then we broke up but then she started likeing my cousin and she said the loved us both but i dont think she loves me cuz when hes around she will hug him and hold his ahnd and everything but yet she wont give me a hug or anything makes me want to fight my cousin wjhat do i do!!!!

July 31, 2012 at 11:53 am
(31) Shelby says:

There’s this boy I really like and my best best friend went to this party and he told her I like you and could we date but she said no and now I’m heart broken and its only the 2nd day I don’t know what to do he used to talk to me and now he doesn’t my best friend askedd him before if he liked me but all along he like her :( ((((((((( I can’t even describe how upset I am just feel like bursting into tears

August 3, 2012 at 9:34 pm
(32) erykah says:

My ex nd I been broke up for an year nd sum months sometimes I cry myself too sleep thinking about him I keep telling him hw much I love him that seems too never wrk nw my bestfriend talks to him nd it really hurts I crys myself too sleep every night smh :’(

September 26, 2012 at 10:29 pm
(33) caleb says:

My gf just said she didnt love me enough and brok up wit me

November 16, 2012 at 8:05 pm
(34) kaelyn luna says:

sing
i jst sing my broken heart to a fix it makes me feel so good cuz i recently had my heart broken by my crush so i dont no if u r a great singer but i am and i SING !!!!

February 25, 2013 at 4:06 am
(35) some1 in need says:

mi bf n i jst brokup n it reali hurts..lik badli sara!! :’(
mi lyf is useless nw!!
i wanw give up lyf!!!!
i dnt knw how to ovacum this problem..
n muv on!!!!
pliz tel me how!!!!
coz its affcting miskul wok..
pliz help me!!!!!

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